Could women live without the drama, passion and romance they experience with men? Without a love each woman dreams of in the secret reaches of her heart? The very fiber of our body cries out at times for a soulmate to possess us in times of loneliness or triumph.
Within the DNA of her extra X chromosome, and in every single one of the 40 trillion or so microscopic cells in her body, nature embedded this clear message: Men are necessary for your survival. Neither men nor women would be born without the existence of both.
This book is organized into two parts, with intriguing stories sprinked throughout each chapter to illustrate different points.
Discover the whys of his inclination to fix, solve, take risks, and how his "hunter" brain is structurally simpler than her "gatherer" brain.
Uncover the origin of his attitudes and inclinations towards communication, emotion, hierarchy, anger, commitment, freedom, and, above all, sex.
Why make a man happy? Because "the greatest thing you'll ever learn is to love and be loved in return."
INTRODUCTION 1
PART 1 DIFFERENCES... 10
1. Why Know Men Better? 11
2. How Humans Survived: Building the Brain 13
3. Takeaways — Hunter/Gatherer 25
4. Differences That Define Us— General 33
5. Differences That Define Us – Specific 36
6. Do Women “Get” Men? 55
PART 2 HAPPY GUYS 66
7. Raw Sex, Please 67
8. Low Hanging Fruit 77
9. Intimacy = Truth + Trust 80
10. Truth-Trust Conundrum 84
11. HELP! Resolving Conflict 91
12. Is Love a Secondhand Emotion? 96
13. Weary Relationships 101
14. Intimacy with Dads and Husbands 110
15. Becoming a Woman Who Makes a Man Happy 124
16. All You Need Is Trust 127